Yea, that is an interesting topic.
No matter how much we try to comprehend humans, they shall never fail to surprise us.
It is funny how people can think money can buy happiness or rather money can win people's affections. If a person can be won over by money then that person is not worth your time at all. Even if you think your giving a new phone or some other gift to somebody will win him or her over in all circumstances, you are wrong. You chose to give the gift. The other person did not ask for it and hence, does not owe you anything.
We have all heard of the saying, 'chor ki daari mei tinka'. Tell me what is wrong with a person asking for his own money that the other person owes. Does he need to be in a state of emergency to want his money back? And the worst why are you getting all worked up when I ask for my own money? I do not need to give you a reason about why I need the money. I am doing you a favor by asking you to pay me back in installments rather than ask for the entire amount at once. And you of all people should know that future is very uncertain. No matter how much you plan you never know when you shall have a downtime. What if you are going through such a time when I really need my money? I do not want to be in trouble because of your inability to plan properly. At the end of the day, nobody said that you will take the money and run away. You mentioned it yourself. And it was bound to hurt your ego or you wont have transferred 1/4th of the amount in my bank account within the next three hours.
Then we all know about people who are like agony aunts. They can always come up with the right solutions. But agony aunts can also have problems, especially when it concerns their heart. Who shall they turn to? They might feel that they are able to see everything objectively but let's face it, our mind has a tendency to save us from potential harm. A state of denial is such an example. A state of refusing to accept the niceties of a person who has hurt you to the core is a manner of your unconscious brain to save you from further pain. But you will not understand this angle as long as you are mulling over the problem. It will take time, weeks, months or maybe years, but you will be able to understand that some things just can not be sorted out by black and white. People are grey and there are many shades of grey, so good luck trying to comprehend each and every one of them.
Why are they all so complex? Feelings is the biggest weakness of a human being. Sometimes I wish there was a switch but is being a machine a better option? Even if it is for a while. I study human body and yet I do not understand why we feel. Why it pains when people betray us or disappoint us. Why are we happy when he learn to accept and forgive ourselves? Yes, we have all sorts hormonal disturbances going on in our bodies but if we find a way to manipulate and control it, I wonder if we shall be able to create a perfect human being. Of course there is no such thing as perfect and I am just talking like a mad scientist from fringe. But maybe someday I will figure out the root of all problems, the reason why we feel, the reason why we are called humans.
No matter how much we try to comprehend humans, they shall never fail to surprise us.
It is funny how people can think money can buy happiness or rather money can win people's affections. If a person can be won over by money then that person is not worth your time at all. Even if you think your giving a new phone or some other gift to somebody will win him or her over in all circumstances, you are wrong. You chose to give the gift. The other person did not ask for it and hence, does not owe you anything.
We have all heard of the saying, 'chor ki daari mei tinka'. Tell me what is wrong with a person asking for his own money that the other person owes. Does he need to be in a state of emergency to want his money back? And the worst why are you getting all worked up when I ask for my own money? I do not need to give you a reason about why I need the money. I am doing you a favor by asking you to pay me back in installments rather than ask for the entire amount at once. And you of all people should know that future is very uncertain. No matter how much you plan you never know when you shall have a downtime. What if you are going through such a time when I really need my money? I do not want to be in trouble because of your inability to plan properly. At the end of the day, nobody said that you will take the money and run away. You mentioned it yourself. And it was bound to hurt your ego or you wont have transferred 1/4th of the amount in my bank account within the next three hours.
Then we all know about people who are like agony aunts. They can always come up with the right solutions. But agony aunts can also have problems, especially when it concerns their heart. Who shall they turn to? They might feel that they are able to see everything objectively but let's face it, our mind has a tendency to save us from potential harm. A state of denial is such an example. A state of refusing to accept the niceties of a person who has hurt you to the core is a manner of your unconscious brain to save you from further pain. But you will not understand this angle as long as you are mulling over the problem. It will take time, weeks, months or maybe years, but you will be able to understand that some things just can not be sorted out by black and white. People are grey and there are many shades of grey, so good luck trying to comprehend each and every one of them.
Why are they all so complex? Feelings is the biggest weakness of a human being. Sometimes I wish there was a switch but is being a machine a better option? Even if it is for a while. I study human body and yet I do not understand why we feel. Why it pains when people betray us or disappoint us. Why are we happy when he learn to accept and forgive ourselves? Yes, we have all sorts hormonal disturbances going on in our bodies but if we find a way to manipulate and control it, I wonder if we shall be able to create a perfect human being. Of course there is no such thing as perfect and I am just talking like a mad scientist from fringe. But maybe someday I will figure out the root of all problems, the reason why we feel, the reason why we are called humans.
