Fairy, "So, if he hooks up with some other girl, will you feel bad?"
Me, "I might be sad but I will not feel bad or angry about it."
Fairy, "Why not?"
Me, "Why should I? Why should he wait for me?"
Fairy, "Why not?"
Me, "Because every time we talk it is like friends. Neither he has said anything nor have I. He has no reason to wait for me and I have no reason to expect that. And the kind of person I am, I will not take a step unless he does."
Fairy, "I always thought there is a silent commitment between you guys."
Me, "Not really. I mean, we just started talking RECENTLY. Before that we were in our own worlds wooing and being wooed by different people. And every time we have talked it is just like friends. Although he is always concerned about what is happening with me and everything but I guess any friend of mine would do that. Yea, he might be the only guy who does that. Anyway, from my past experience I should not really rely on my intuitions because no matter how right I am, guys can always end up being a jerk. So I do not expect him to wait for me. I will be sad, maybe but I will not feel betrayed or anything."
After some more conversation
Me, "Yes. If he hooks up with a friend of mine or a girl who is very similar to me, that is when I will feel betrayed."
P.S. Silent Commitment? Happens only in movies.
Me, "I might be sad but I will not feel bad or angry about it."
Fairy, "Why not?"
Me, "Why should I? Why should he wait for me?"
Fairy, "Why not?"
Me, "Because every time we talk it is like friends. Neither he has said anything nor have I. He has no reason to wait for me and I have no reason to expect that. And the kind of person I am, I will not take a step unless he does."
Fairy, "I always thought there is a silent commitment between you guys."
Me, "Not really. I mean, we just started talking RECENTLY. Before that we were in our own worlds wooing and being wooed by different people. And every time we have talked it is just like friends. Although he is always concerned about what is happening with me and everything but I guess any friend of mine would do that. Yea, he might be the only guy who does that. Anyway, from my past experience I should not really rely on my intuitions because no matter how right I am, guys can always end up being a jerk. So I do not expect him to wait for me. I will be sad, maybe but I will not feel betrayed or anything."
After some more conversation
Me, "Yes. If he hooks up with a friend of mine or a girl who is very similar to me, that is when I will feel betrayed."
P.S. Silent Commitment? Happens only in movies.
2 comments:
hahah her theories are so interesting sometimes!
Lol, I know. They just come out of no where and are not entirely impossible. Finally, when I told her that there might be a possibility that I meet some guy here and fall for him, forgetting all about Ronald. At that moment, he can not get angry at me or charge me with anything because I never gave him any indication of my interest in him. Similarly, if the situation reverses, why should I be angry at him. To that she finally replied, "I think that makes sense."
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